Setting: Car on the way home from the Y
Steve: What nationality is Lolit's dad?
Whitney: He's half black and half Indian
Whitney: Native American Indian, not "nahni nahni" indian.
Steve: Nahni nahni?
Whitney: yeah, starts singing "nahni nahni nahni nahni".
Steve: What?
Me: "Outsourced" Indian
Steve: Oh, the country India
Whitney: Yeah
Steve: looks over his shoulder at Whitney "Nahni nahni"?
Whitney: shrugs
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
It's my Anniversary
My wedding anniversary. Instead of telling you how wonderful Steve is (he is) how wonderful my marriage is (it is, praise God) and how blessed I am (I really am) I decided to share a few things I admire from marriages of some of my friends. These are marriages that are solid in all aspects, it's just some of the things that stick out to me that make them special.
Marriage #1 She knows how to do family time and she knows how to do date night and she knows how to do girls night. She makes sure that they have family time and mom and kid time and dad and kid time and that dad has time with his friends and that she spends time with her friends. And they spend time together. We all know that relationships are work. And she does this so well. Steve and I love to spend time with her and her husband, we double date quite regularly. As much as I love her, I think our husband have as close a bond as we do, and that makes for a lot of fun. I admire the intentional way she is raising her family and the way she puts her marriage first. I also know that their time with their individual friends allows them to be refreshed and better for their family.
Marriage #2 I have known both of these individuals before they got married. They are 20 years together and stronger now than ever. They make each other better. I have watched over the years how they support each other. They have some of the same interests, things they love to do together. But they each have their unique interests and these have never caused a wedge between them. I have seen him spend hours researching her interests to get just the right birthday present. They encourage each other and support each other. Totally understand that your individuality and uniqueness should not be lost when you get married. Yes, two become one, but neither loses themself.
Marriage #3 Submission is such a hard concept in todays society. It's hard for the secular world, and it's even hard in the Christian world. It's hard for me. This lady gets it. And does it. She's not a doormat. She's not incapable. Far from it, she has a masters degree, is a gifted teacher and brilliant writer. She is one that everyone wants to be friends with. She puts herself under her husbands leadership and while that may seem weak to the world, it has resulted in a relationship, a marriage that is one of the strongest I have ever seen.
These are not earth shattering. They are not recipes for happy marriages (although they will not hurt a marriage). They all know the secret of putting your loved ones needs, wants and desires ahead of your own. Today I want to leave you with my secret in my marriage when I'm in a rough time. I recite this to myself.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way. It it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
I recite these to myself when I'm upset, almost like a mantra. Sometimes just one line over and over like, love is not rude...love bears all things...love does not insist on its own way...
And remember LOVE NEVER ENDS!
Marriage #1 She knows how to do family time and she knows how to do date night and she knows how to do girls night. She makes sure that they have family time and mom and kid time and dad and kid time and that dad has time with his friends and that she spends time with her friends. And they spend time together. We all know that relationships are work. And she does this so well. Steve and I love to spend time with her and her husband, we double date quite regularly. As much as I love her, I think our husband have as close a bond as we do, and that makes for a lot of fun. I admire the intentional way she is raising her family and the way she puts her marriage first. I also know that their time with their individual friends allows them to be refreshed and better for their family.
Marriage #2 I have known both of these individuals before they got married. They are 20 years together and stronger now than ever. They make each other better. I have watched over the years how they support each other. They have some of the same interests, things they love to do together. But they each have their unique interests and these have never caused a wedge between them. I have seen him spend hours researching her interests to get just the right birthday present. They encourage each other and support each other. Totally understand that your individuality and uniqueness should not be lost when you get married. Yes, two become one, but neither loses themself.
Marriage #3 Submission is such a hard concept in todays society. It's hard for the secular world, and it's even hard in the Christian world. It's hard for me. This lady gets it. And does it. She's not a doormat. She's not incapable. Far from it, she has a masters degree, is a gifted teacher and brilliant writer. She is one that everyone wants to be friends with. She puts herself under her husbands leadership and while that may seem weak to the world, it has resulted in a relationship, a marriage that is one of the strongest I have ever seen.
These are not earth shattering. They are not recipes for happy marriages (although they will not hurt a marriage). They all know the secret of putting your loved ones needs, wants and desires ahead of your own. Today I want to leave you with my secret in my marriage when I'm in a rough time. I recite this to myself.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way. It it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
I recite these to myself when I'm upset, almost like a mantra. Sometimes just one line over and over like, love is not rude...love bears all things...love does not insist on its own way...
And remember LOVE NEVER ENDS!
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
30 X 30
I was going to do a 30 X 30 challenge.
30 items from my closet, mixed and matched for 30 days.
Two things stopped me.
The 90 degree difference in temperatures we had in a week and the fact that even with my running clothes I don't have 30 pieces I like to wear.
Maybe it's time to shop.
30 items from my closet, mixed and matched for 30 days.
Two things stopped me.
The 90 degree difference in temperatures we had in a week and the fact that even with my running clothes I don't have 30 pieces I like to wear.
Maybe it's time to shop.
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Training Update
My favorite running songs
If You Leave - The Cure (phrase "I'll be running the other way")
Rock Me Amadeus - Falco (no explanation, just love this song...in German)
Separate Ways - Journey (great running beat)
All These Things That I've Done - Killers (from the sermon series "Running")
Turn Me Loose - Loverboy (first line "I was born to run")
Safety Dance - Men Without Hats ("we can dance if we want to" what's not to love?)
Sister Christian - Knightranger (the phrase "you're motoring" just really motivates me)
The Queen Block
I Want to Ride My Bicycle
Fat Bottomed Girls (REALLY??? Yep)
I Want it All
Eye of the Tiger - Survivor (because I feel like Rocky, may even take a few shadow boxing punches while I run)
The Tears for Fears block, (because I loved them in my teen formative years)
Everybody Wants to Rule the World
Head Over Heels
Shout
21 Guns - Green Day (and yes, I know it's anti-war, but when I heard it, it spoke to me about my spiritual life and still does).
And the U2 block, because I love pretty much all things U2
With or Without You
Where the Streets Have No Name
I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For
The Sweetest Thing
One
I Will Follow
(AND MANY OTHERS)
This is my secular playlist, heavily influenced by the 80's when I was a teenager/early adult. I have a very long running playlist because I run for a very long time, that I don't mess with, because it works. There are more songs on this playlist, but these are my favorites. I have another one, it's my Christian/worship music playlist. I can't combine the two, because I'm afraid my head might explode going back and forth. I pick based on my mood, and someday I'll share the Christian one as well. Sometimes I run without music, and enjoy nature and time with God and my thoughts. But sometimes, I need the pounding beat to match my pounding blood.
What motivates you?
If You Leave - The Cure (phrase "I'll be running the other way")
Rock Me Amadeus - Falco (no explanation, just love this song...in German)
Separate Ways - Journey (great running beat)
All These Things That I've Done - Killers (from the sermon series "Running")
Turn Me Loose - Loverboy (first line "I was born to run")
Safety Dance - Men Without Hats ("we can dance if we want to" what's not to love?)
Sister Christian - Knightranger (the phrase "you're motoring" just really motivates me)
The Queen Block
I Want to Ride My Bicycle
Fat Bottomed Girls (REALLY??? Yep)
I Want it All
Eye of the Tiger - Survivor (because I feel like Rocky, may even take a few shadow boxing punches while I run)
The Tears for Fears block, (because I loved them in my teen formative years)
Everybody Wants to Rule the World
Head Over Heels
Shout
21 Guns - Green Day (and yes, I know it's anti-war, but when I heard it, it spoke to me about my spiritual life and still does).
And the U2 block, because I love pretty much all things U2
With or Without You
Where the Streets Have No Name
I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For
The Sweetest Thing
One
I Will Follow
(AND MANY OTHERS)
This is my secular playlist, heavily influenced by the 80's when I was a teenager/early adult. I have a very long running playlist because I run for a very long time, that I don't mess with, because it works. There are more songs on this playlist, but these are my favorites. I have another one, it's my Christian/worship music playlist. I can't combine the two, because I'm afraid my head might explode going back and forth. I pick based on my mood, and someday I'll share the Christian one as well. Sometimes I run without music, and enjoy nature and time with God and my thoughts. But sometimes, I need the pounding beat to match my pounding blood.
What motivates you?
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